May The Force Be With You- Mark Pavlovich
Tuesday, April 13th, 2010Has the last of our gunslingers hung up his six guns and just become another face in the crowd? After the Masters this past weekend we as sports fans have to let out a sad sigh and realize that the once charging Tiger may have become a purring pussy cat.
Jack Nicklaus was asked before the Masters if he thought Tiger was going to break his record on major victories. Jack said that if Tiger were to have a chance, this would be the year he would have to prove it, with all the majors being set up on courses conducive to Tiger’s swing. He was also asked (this one is for Mr. Neyland) if all the greats could have played during any era. His answer was yes, because not only were they sound fundamentally but they were solid mentally and they had the desire to be the best. But he did reconfirm that he was only talking about the greats, not everyone: Palmer, Hogan, Jones, Player, Snead, and Watson. Interestingly, he did not mention any names on the current PGA. Of course, we do know that Jack would consider Tiger as one of the greats, as we all do, but like Jack we will all wait until the end of Tiger’s career to see where his greatest ranks amongst the others Jack named.
So what happened to our gun slinging golfer? If you go to therapy to have the demons exorcized from your inner being, to discover your true self, do you discover that part of the dark side is that inner strength to be a champion? When you purge yourself, do you lose that desire to win? Research has shown that to reach for success can have negative consequences. Remember though: “good guys finish last”.
I know Tiger said he came to win The Masters, but before he used to come to a tournament with the intention of not losing it, not just winning. Is there a difference? Yes… in trying to win you will give it your best shot and at the end of the day you will throw up your hands and say, “I tried my best”. But in trying not to lose, you will try to pull out the impossible, mentally and physically, which may be too overpowering for the opposition to deal with during competition. How many times have we, as a viewing audience, looked at a few of the truly great players in a given sport and asked ourselves how did they make that basket, catch, pass, goal, shot, recovery of an impending blunder?
Yet, when we as a group, audience, individuals, start talking about that group of elite athletes, we do find a common thread, a dark side. Is it a horrible dark side? Well, the media would like you to think that their mistakes will swallow up the human race and it will be the end of the world. It may not, but it could create more negative consequences, which could create severe chaos for their families as the desire for success grows.
Wait, before you start yelling at me and asking “me what about so and so?” and “look at you know who”, remember, we all saw the good in Tiger and thought he was the perfect image for professional golf. Does that mean that all greats cross over the line? I am sure that there are many great athletes that can control that consuming dark desire and that find non-destructive ways to redirect that desire to a positive plateau. But let us be realistic, that is why some athletes cannot retire, and when they do, their lives crumble right before our eyes because competitive sports is their only outlet for that uncontrollable hunger that helps them win.
So what of the Tiger, can he find that balance of what has made him the greatest of his generation? If he cannot, it will be golf’s loss. For we, as golf fans, have loved those golfers who stride down a golf course with a swagger and a flare and look at their opponents and have boldly told them “I am not going to lose today.” It may be your golf tournament to win, but it is mine to lose or not. Jack and Title IX you are so right, the greats could play and win during any era, let us just hope that the Tiger can control his dark side and rediscover his roar instead of a sleeping purr.
